8/19/09

Private.

Someone made a very nasty comment recently on my post about our trip to the zoo. I took a picture of Andrew and I in some hats that I jokingly dubbed "Asian hats". So, in reply to this anonymous commenter: I'm sorry if I offended. Yes, I do like and respect Asians, and have many Asian friends. Contrary to your belief, I grew up somewhere very diverse, with only a handful of white kids in my high school. And last, yes I did go to many years of college.

Some people need to take a joke and not look at strangers' blogs.

So, in conclusion, to prevent future nights lying awake worrying what a stranger thinks of me--I'm making our blog private! Email me at elysegarlock@gmail.com so I can add you to our list of invitees!

15 comments:

becca said...

i like your blog, and if you want to make it private, that's ok and that's your decision, and if you do, I'd like to still read it (beccafoster at gmail dot com).

That being said: Don't let what other people think get to you (I say this but struggle with it myself). In my opinion, if someone doesn't have some people that don't like them, then they probably don't have anybody that really loves them either. We can't always please everyone, and we shouldn't try to. Be yourself and post what you darn well please is my opinion.

I mean this comment in the most positive way. I'm just trying to be supportive and encouraging.

Diana Hulme said...

Bummer! People are totally lame sometimes. Um, hello - those were clearly ASIAN hats - what else would they be? You were totally not offensive. I just think it's so weird & rude when random people post mean opinionated stuff on someone's blog they've never met.

my email is dianahulme@gmail.com - i'd love to keep reading! :)

Rasmussen Family said...

weird. some people have no life, so they try to ruin other peoples. Love you guys of course put me on there

Glo said...

I can't believe you didn't tell me about this! What a lame person. I of course want to read your blog. And although I may comment on 90% of your posts, i assure you they will never be rude!

Goose said...

Another option is to only allow comments to be posted after you approve them. Anyway, put me on the list.
wardras@gmail.com

Mary said...

Hey, can I be on the list too?
marybaldwin7@gmail.com

Shea McGee said...

Oh, I am so sorry that happened - people are ridiculous. shea.miller85@gmail.com

Sara Parr said...

I don't know you - and I'm coming out of the closet as a friend of a friend (of a friend, perhaps, ha!) But I love your bangs...can you share some styling tips?! :) What products do you use? Thanks!! saraparr@gmail.com

Aubrey Messick said...

Why are some people so lame! I've actually had the same problem on my blog. It really bugs when complete strangers feel the need to leave hurtful comments. They're obviously total losers. Anyway, I think you and Andrew are adorable and I wanna keep reading: aubreymessick@gmail.com.

Ashly said...

That is just rude. Tell that person to get off their high horse already. Regardless, I would love to be invited!
ashlylark@gmail.com

Paige said...

Hey. I stalk you. Just thought you might like to know :) paigereynders@gmail.com

Molly said...

Ugh. That breaks my heart to hear!!! Please don't let this get to you!!! But if you must, I understand.
:) I don't really know either of you but I love your blogs. PLEASE keep me. hah
mfreestone06@gmail.com

Bryce & Nicole said...

Sorry to hear that, that happened to you! I love your blog. nelsonnicolee@yahoo.com

David and Karin said...

I don't know if you knew I even read your blog - but I love it! haha Its so cute! Add me, please! kardynes@gmail.com

Elise said...

some people suck.